Let's take you for example, you are reading this because you are always there for your man, always looking after him and you always have his best interests at heart, you have always got the time for him no matter what, in fact, you would probably do anything for him, to please him at all times.
However, you need to understand something important here...
Believe it or not, you may actually be damaging your relationship with him because you could be taking away his "purpose".
You need to understand that all men secretly want to be a hero, in your eyes he wants to be "your" hero, not the other way around. He doesn't want you to be his hero!
Men love movies with hero's in them, they aspire to the hero. Just take a look at how many men, no matter how grown up they think they are still love watching superhero movies or maybe even still reading those Marvel comics?
Nearly all men on this planet, although they may not admit it, from a very early age dreamed of growing up to be the superhero who saves the day and gets the girl in the end!
The trouble is, most men, if not most probably all, don't get the opportunity to go out and be a world saving superhero in their normal day to day lives.
It's very hard for a man to actually go into "that phone box" and rip off his clothes and change into his "superhero" alter ego outfit and go out and save the world, but one thing is for sure, he can still go out and get the girl!
To get the girl is worthy of any man's courage, a challenge, even for the ordinary guy down the street with the heart of a superhero. He's got superhuman confidence and charm, he's immune to pain and he thinks he's in complete control of himself. Now all he needs to do is...
Find that one special girl who needs a superhero, is that what you need, your very own superhero? But hang on a minute, maybe that's not you?
You consider yourself to be strong and independent. You can fix that dripping tap. You can change the wheel on your car if you get a blow out, you don't need a hero, you can look after yourself, right? You don't need to look for a man to make you complete!
But you maybe missing the point here. You have a lot to offer your hero, "your man". You are kind, generous and loving. You don't find fault with him, you're willing to bend over backwards for him, do anything, all you need is a man that is willing to accept you for who you are and all that you can offer him. Someone who simply appreciates "you for being you".
But maybe that's why you haven't found your hero yet. Maybe that's why you've only ended up with "takers" who just don't really appreciate you for being you and just end up leaving you high and dry! If you really want that "hero", you need to advertise, flaunt yourself!
This is where we come to something called the "Hero Instinct". A deep down, powerful primal instinct, more powerful than hunger, thirst and even sex, that even most men, or women don't even realize they have but which "you" can secretly trigger without him even knowing, and make him so obsessed with you he will never leave you high and dry. His desire for you will be infinite. So, here are three ways to trigger that primal instinct, his "Hero Instinct":
1. Men love it when you ask for help. So ask!
Ask him for some technical advice on buying a new computer, laptop or phone, or even a toaster! Ask him to listen to that weird rattling sound that's coming from somewhere in your car. Ask him to reach for something high up on the top shelf. Then thank him warmly, with a great big smile of appreciation. No, that doesn't make you a needy person. It makes you a woman with the space and time for a man in her life.
2. Take pleasure in the company of your man and his male friends.
Men love it when women appreciate a man for just simply being a man. So what if he is a football fanatic, or always has to watch that certain box set on TV. He's a man and believe it or not, it's true and scientifically proven that men don't really ever grow up, they have always got that hidden child in them, so embrace it, don't knock it!
So what if his idea of a clean shirt is the one that he thinks doesn't need ironing. That's okay, the last thing you need is for him to be more like you, don't try to influence him, at the end of the day, you have got the feminine side of things covered.
3. He needs to earn your respect, so let him, don't be a pushover.
Superheros love a great challenge, to prove themselves. They don’t want to be given a gold medal just for showing up. They don’t want your love handed to them on a plate.
They want to earn it, it gives them a sense of purpose. If there's one thing they crave even more than a woman's eternal enduring love, it's a challenge. So give him the opportunity to prove himself. You don’t have to do the work of winning him over. Sit back, relax, and allow him the pleasure of winning your admiration and respect.
The rare woman who can satisfy this emotional need in men has an almost supernatural allure that is impossible to resist.
The great thing about this is that it's about trying to pretend like you're someone you're not… it's about getting men to fall madly in love with the REAL you…
And satisfy a man's hidden, emotional need in a way that will captivate his heart so that he'll go to the ends of the earth to please you, to do anything for you.
His "Hero Instinct", or "His Secret Obsession" is the hidden need that makes him feel MORE than just attraction.
Most women don't know this… but even if a man is attracted to you or even says he loves you… Chances are he still feels that there is something is missing!
It is because of this secret, emotional need, hidden deep within his heart and mind that he craves so much more than anything… But in most cases, is not being met.
The problem is, if his Hero Instinct is not being met, his attention can and will probably wander far afield until he finds a woman who can give it to him.
There is only maybe one in a thousand women who knows how to do this instinctively, and they usually rise to unbelievable levels of influence and fame.
But most women, or men for that matter, don’t even know it exists!
On the other hand, when you have the secret of the "Hero Instinct", you won’t believe the profound effect you can have on the man in your life.
If you're ready to have your man melt in your hands and go to the ends of the earth to please, cherish and love you, then learn more about the "Hero Instinct" by clicking the link below, believe me, you won't be disappointed!